It amazing what gets discussed first thing in a morning. I was walking to work after I'd parked the car and met someone who I hadn't seen in a while. After the usual pleasantries he was telling me of a recent bereavement. The conversation move to the question "What would you do if a doctor told you how long you had left" My goodness what a question to be asked, I had loads of thoughts but to be honest could not come up with a real plan, so many avenues for discussion this throws up.
I then remembered years ago having a discussion in a bar with mates on the question "What would you like someone to say as they view your remains in a coffin" this question was a lot easier, my answer was "Look, he's moving"